Private matchmaking

Looking for
a serious relationship?

The world’s first AI-driven gay matchmaking service.

Identity stays private until there’s mutual interest.

Why Kin

Why not apps —
or classic matchmakers?

Dating apps give you more people to browse. Traditional matchmaking is serious — but expensive and uneven. Kin is built for something better.

Gay Dating Apps

  • Endless profiles, endless time spent sorting
  • Different intentions make serious relationships hard to find
  • Little insight into values or life background
  • Ghosting and dead-end conversations

Traditional Gay Matchmakers

  • High fees
  • A limited pool of potential matches
  • Match quality can depend on the individual advisor
  • Hard to deliver personal service at scale

Kin

  • More accessible pricing than a traditional matchmaker
  • A private, screened pool of relationship-minded men
  • Matching considers attraction, values, and relationship goals
  • AI helps find potential matches; a person reviews every introduction

How it works

Tell us who.
We do the searching.

Full process →
  1. 01

    Apply to the network

    Fill in the basics — who you are, how you live, and who you’re looking for.

  2. 02

    We review your application

    A person on the Kin team reviews your profile and confirms you can join our membership.

  3. 03

    Deep screening

    Once approved, Kin AI interviews you in depth. Then a person reviews your proof materials, screening, and profile.

  4. 04

    Kin searches for you

    Once you’re in the pool, Kin’s algorithm finds matches from past outcomes and how well two people fit.

  5. 05

    Receive an introduction

    AI + human review decide whether to send it. You get a first look — no photos yet.

  6. 06

    Both interested

    Only if you both say yes do photos and fuller profiles unlock.

  7. 07

    Meet in real life

    If you both want to continue, Kin helps you get there.

  8. 08

    Post-date feedback

    The next day, both of you get a short feedback form — then you choose a second date or the next introduction.

Cities

Cities we serve.

  • New YorkAmbitious. Diverse. Real.
  • San FranciscoOpen-minded. Intentional.
  • Los AngelesCreative. Connected.
  • ChicagoGrounded. Growing.

Also matching in Seattle, Boston, Austin, Miami, Washington DC, and Denver.

Privacy

No public profile.
Nobody can browse you.

Your info stays with Kin for matching. Other members can’t scroll through your photos or look you up.

  • You’re not searchable. There’s no public page of you. Only Kin uses what you share to find a match.
  • People are verified. We check identity and key details before anyone gets introduced.
  • You only see who Kin sends. First look has no photo. Photos and fuller details unlock only if you both say yes.
How privacy works on Kin →

Membership

Join free.
Pay when there’s someone to meet.

$199

First Introduction · one-time
3 months of matchmaking · 1 curated introduction

Then Continue with Kin: $699 a year with 3 introductions each year. Renews yearly — cancel anytime.

Join the waitlist

FAQ

Questions?
Straight answers.

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No. Kin is private matchmaking — not a browseable dating pool. There’s no swiping and no public directory. You tell Kin who you are and who you’re looking for; Kin searches on your behalf.

Join our network for free.

Leave your email. We’ll write when Kin opens.

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